With Christine and Grant Wattie

Founders of Aroha Leadership and Mentors to over 10,000 individuals and couples around the world and happily married for 40 years.


Who is this course for?

  • You want to work on your relationship, but your partner seems completely checked out, and you have no idea where to start.
  • Your once perfect relationship has crumbled, and your partner has said those painful words: "I'm not in love with you anymore."
  • The thought of divorce fills you with dread, considering the emotional toll, financial costs, and impact on your children.
  • You lie awake at night, consumed by anger, anxiety, fear, and a sense of betrayal, wondering if your marriage can be salvaged.
  • You and your partner have become more like roommates, feeling a million miles apart even when sharing the same bed.
  • Intimacy and sex have become distant memories, leaving you longing for the closeness you once shared.
  • Endless fighting and bickering have drained the joy from your relationship, and coming home feels like walking into a battlefield.
  • You miss the warm, cozy evenings, the fun, and the friendship that defined your connection in the past.
  • You know something needs to change, but you're at a loss for what to do. You've exhausted advice from friends, blogs, and even couples therapy.
  • The isolation and loneliness you feel in your failing relationship have become overwhelming.
  • The silence between you and your partner has turned your once-happy union into a cold, distant union.
  • You're feeling trapped, lonely, and questioning whether it's even possible to fix your relationship.

You can expect the following life-changing outcomes:

  1. Rediscover Friendship and Connection: Build a relationship where you and your partner enjoy genuine friendship, deep connection, and feel safe sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings.

  2. Create a Crystal-Clear Action Plan: Develop an actionable plan with exact steps to build a thriving relationship that meets all your needs and desires, and start seeing results in as little as 7 days.

  3. Shift Your Focus: Understand why solely focusing on your problems is the wrong approach to saving your relationship and learn the counterintuitive secret of focusing on positive actions to rebuild your relationship.

  4. Revitalize Your Life: Experience a newfound bounce in your step, increased energy, enhanced performance at work, and enjoyment in all areas of your life as your marriage improves.

  5. Avoid Conflict and Divorce: Discover how to disengage from conflict, avoid divorce, and save thousands in legal fees while building an unshakable foundation of love.

Course Overview

Welcome to a comprehensive program designed to guide you through the transformation of your marriage. Here's a sneak peek into what you'll learn throughout the course:

  • Week One: Setting a Powerful Mindset: Lay the groundwork for success by mastering self-awareness, identifying your values and relationship vision, and developing a positive mindset to navigate challenges.
  • Week Two: Breaking Through Stories & Claiming Your True Identity: Explore the power of love connection and break free from limiting stories that hold you back from being your authentic self.
  • Week Three: The Power of Connection: Dive deep into understanding the importance of emotional connection, building an emotional bank account, and aligning your values and beliefs.
  • Week Four: From Me to We: Shift your focus from individual needs to a shared vision of unity, and master the art of beliefs that support a thriving relationship.
  • Week Five: Stress & Conflict Strategies to Create Intimacy & Love: Learn effective strategies for managing stress and conflict, establishing agreements and having meaningful conversations, and resolving conflicts with compassion.
  • Week Six: Dealing with Sex, Money, and the In-laws: Address the sensitive topics that often strain relationships, including sex and intimacy, financial matters, and navigating relationships with in-laws.
  • Bonus Mindset Material: Gain additional insights on authenticity, forgiveness, saving your marriage, having great conversations, managing stress with EMDR, and unlocking your potential.
  • Week Seven and Eight: Building Connection: Continue building connection and practicing the principles learned throughout the course to solidify lasting change in your marriage.
  • Q&A Call Recordings: Access valuable recordings of Q&A sessions, providing you with further guidance and clarification on key topics.


Note: The program content and structure listed above are subject to change based on the course instructor's curriculum updates.

Enroll now

Don't let your marriage slip away. Join Million Dollar Marriage today and embark on a transformative journey that will empower you to create the loving, fulfilling relationship you deserve.

Course Curriculum

  • 1

    Welcome

    • Welcome to Million Dollar Marriage!

    • Welcome

    • Action Steps

  • 2

    Program Overview

    • Program Overview

  • 3

    Week One

    • Setting a Powerful Mindset

    • Mindset

    • Action Steps

    • Self-Awareness

    • Self-awareness action steps

    • Values & Relationship Vision

    • Values and Relationship Vision Action Steps

    • Who Am I?

    • Mastering Thoughts & Emotions Practice

    • Acceptance

    • Week 1 of 40 Day Challenge

    • Daily Questions Spreadsheet

    • Above the Line Mindset

    • Aroha Core Emotions and Intensity

    • List of Values

    • Positive Communication

    • Vision Example (Steve&Debby)

  • 4

    Week Two

    • Breaking Through Stories & Claiming Your True Identity

    • Love Connection

    • Week Two of 40 Day Challenge

  • 5

    Week Three

    • The Power of Connection

    • Worksheet Week 3 Background, Values and Beliefs

    • Emotional Bank Account

    • Week Three of 40 Day Challenge

  • 6

    Week Four

    • From Me to We

    • Mastering Beliefs

    • Worksheet Week 4 Relationship Romance Rating

    • Week Four of 40 Day Challenge

    • Worksheet Week 4 Wattie Island Survival Task

  • 7

    Week Five

    • Stress & Conflict Strategies to Create Intimacy & Love

    • Agreements & Aroha Conversations

    • Week Five of 40 Day Challenge

    • Worksheet Week 5 Influence

    • Balance Wheel

    • Dealing with Conflict Worksheet

    • Conflict Resolution Conversations

    • End-Of-Day Stress Reducing Conversation

    • How To Write A Letter To Your Partner

  • 8

    Week Six

    • Dealing with Sex, Money and the In-laws

    • Sex and Intimacy

    • Week 6 of 40 Day Challenge

    • Relationship Challenges Worksheet

    • Shared Dreams and Purpose Discovery Worksheet

    • Budgeting Worksheet

    • Love Connection Sexuality Exercise Worksheet

    • Fun, Sexy Things to Do Together Worksheet

  • 9

    Bonus Mindset Material + Love Without Limits Book

    • Being Authentic

    • The One Secret To Saving Your Marriage

    • A Mindset for Great Conversations

    • Breaking Free

    • The Courage To Let Go

    • Stress Management With EMDR (Mark Grant)

    • Love Without Limits Book

  • 10

    Week Seven

    • Week 7 Building Connection 40 Day Challenge

  • 11

    Week Eight

    • Week 8 Building Connection 40 Day Challenge

  • 12

    Love Without Limits Book

    • Love Without Limits Book

    • Love Without Limits Podcast (Ai Generated Discussion)